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Virtual Pornography And Sexual Impotence

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The way in which pornography is consumed has changed a lot in recent years and this phenomenon has caused problems in the sexual life of men. In the very near past, only people over 18 could buy men’s magazines at newsstands or could rent pornographic videos from video stores. This made access very limited. And this was a good thing because it was just a stimulating material and did no harm to a couple’s sex life.

Today, in just one click, we have access to free porn content inside the house. As the saying goes, the difference between the medicine and the poison is in the dose. Thus, the excessive consumption of virtual pornography has produced sexual impotence, predominantly, in young people aged 18 to 30 years. Until recently, men who had problems with sexual dysfunction were older, in their 50s, and this problem was mostly associated with issues of an organic nature such as hormonal changes, diabetes, coronary heart disease, smoking, excess alcohol, multiple sclerosis. Today’s patients are men aged 18 to 30 who have no organic causes related to their sexual impotence. What would be happening to the sexual health of these boys?

Several studies have correlated the above with the overuse of online pornography by young people. They are much more susceptible to developing an addiction to virtual material of a sexual nature quickly. It is common for them to watch porn videos several times a day and masturbate before the scenes presented. Over time, those scenes no longer stimulate them and they start looking for more exaggerated content to achieve an erection.

The big question is that normal life is very different from virtual life and, even though these men are attracted to their partners and feel the desire to have sex with them, they are not able to get aroused and / or maintain an erection, because their brain has become addicted in erotic content typical of the world of virtual pornography and is no longer excited by real life, much less sophisticated than the sexual life presented on the web.

Online pornography increases the sensitivity to pornographic stimuli and reduces the sensitivity to normal sexual stimuli in the brain. Our sexual behavior activates the same brain circuit (reward system) as addictive substances, such as cocaine, with online pornography being a particularly strong stimulus for this circuit that develops recurring behaviors as a result of a self-reinforcing activity. That is, the more virtual pornography the subject consumes, the more his brain is activated, stimulated, excited, and will want, more and more, bigger and stronger doses. Thus, watching pornography on the internet in a systematic way increases the person’s tolerance, the same as with alcohol and drug addicts,

If you identified with the text and realize that your consumption of virtual pornography is exaggerated and you have no control over it, or if you already have erection difficulties in a normal sexual relationship, but you are easily aroused by pornographic material on the internet, seek help from a specialized sexologist in Delhi, in case this is causing suffering for you or for those you love.

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Sexual Breakdowns: 2 Causes That We Often Ignore

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Two patients sought advice from Dr. P K Gupta, sexologist in Delhi, for the problems of the sexual breakdown of their companions. The doctor answers them.

Certain medications and problems with being overweight can lead to a drop in testosterone and, consequently, erection problems.

SINCE BEING TREATED FOR HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, MY PARTNER HAS BROKEN DOWN

“Indeed, certain drugs against high blood pressure have the adverse effect of causing erection problems. I advise him to speak to his doctor so that he can choose the least harmful treatment at this level. on the other hand, over the long term, hypertension damages the arteries, so it is important to treat it in order to prevent the narrowing of the sexual arteries (and all others, from the heart to the brain).

Three non-drug treatments can be effective for this type of pathology: weight loss (in case of overweight), physical exercise, and regular practice of cardiac coherence, a respiratory technique that calms the physical and mental. Men who take care of themselves in this way sometimes regain normal blood pressure without medication or can have a lighter treatment, therefore fewer adverse effects. Note that the drugs called “erection facilitators” of the Viagra family are often very effective in this context and that they are not contraindicated in high blood pressure.

Also, note that a study shows that 80% of men with erection problems have too low vitamin D levels. Supplementation can thus be offered in winter or early spring to improve what is called endothelial function. That is to say, the functioning of the internal wall of the small arteries, which plays a significant role in the erection. This would be all the more interesting since vitamin D also seems to help reduce the risk of high blood pressure! Talk to your doctor.”

MY HUSBAND IS TOO FAT, CAN THIS CAUSE SEXUAL PROBLEMS?

“Yes, it can harm sexuality. Being overweight already causes a drop in the male hormone testosterone, which can be the cause of both decreased desire and erection quality. Obese men have on average two and a half times more erection problems than those with normal weight, so this is a perfectly true medical argument.

In addition, different studies show that improving one’s lifestyle also improves erections. We know that to motivate someone to change, whatever the field, we must help them find the stimulation that will give them sufficient energy. Especially since obesity in men can have other sexual consequences: limiting the possibilities of positions during intercourse, of course, but also sometimes reaching the desire of one’s partner. You can talk to him about these arguments! In the same spirit, note that sedentary men have about twice as often erection problems than sportsmen. This could encourage him to move more.

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The 8 most frequent sexual problems and how to treat them

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Both men and women can experience a wide variety of sexual problems. Some of these disorders involve pain, difficulty reaching orgasm or difficulty maintaining sexual arousal.

Suffering from sexual problems is a complex experience, as this situation often affects not only the person who suffers it but also their partner. Although sexologist in Delhi in sexual therapy deal daily with patients who come to their consultations for these types of disorders, many individuals find it difficult to take the step and seek professional help, mainly because of the shame they feel.

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What are the main sexual problems that both men and women suffer? What disorders affect the sexual well-being of a person or a couple? 

In the following lines, you can find a list of the most common sexual problems and how to treat them.

1. Disorder of sexual desire

Lack of interest in sex, or lack of sexual desire, is a frequent problem in both sexes; however, it is more frequent among women. In fact, it is considered the most common sexual dysfunction in females, reaching an incidence of 33% between 18 and 59 years and up to 45% in menopause. This apathy not only includes disinterest in sex but also in all sexual behavior, such as masturbation.

The causes can be both physical and psychological. Regarding the latter, the following stand out a couple’s problems, other sexual dysfunctions (vaginismus, erectile dysfunction, etc.), mood disorders,  anxiety and stress, tiredness or monotony.

2. Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction is the inability of a man to achieve and/or maintain the erection of the penis and, therefore, to have satisfactory intercourse. It is one of the most feared sexual problems among men and can have a severe impact on the life of the affected, especially in their self-esteem and interpersonal relationships.

It occurs for different causes, although the anxiety of execution is one of the psychological origins that can cause this sexual limitation and that turns this problem into a vicious circle from which it costs to leave.

3. Disorder in sexual arousal in women

The excitation disorder in women refers to the impossibility of experiencing physiological changes during sexual arousals, such as vaginal lubrication, acceleration of heartbeat and muscle tension; a situation that lasts throughout sexual activity. As with erectile dysfunction, arousal disorder in women has a high incidence.

The psychological factors that are most important in the appearance of this sexual problem are the anticipated fear of having a new sexual failure and the anxiety that this fear causes.

4. Vaginismus

Vaginismus is a female sexual dysfunction that is characterized by the inability to achieve vaginal penetration due to the contraction of the muscles surrounding the entrance of the vagina. It occurs due to a reflex spasm that causes the muscles in this area to contract, thus closing the vaginal opening.

The cause is usually found in the fact that some women relate penetration to the sense of danger. The anxiety that derives from this situation causes a tension response that makes it impossible to relax the vaginal muscles.

5. Premature ejaculation

Psychological causes include low self-esteem, execution anxiety, depression, anxiety, and nervousness.

6. Anorgasmia

Anorgasmia is another type of orgasm disorder that affects both men and women; however, it is more frequent in the case of the latter (female anorgasmia). It is defined as an absence or delay of orgasm during normal sexual activity, and as in the previous case, psychological factors usually predominate over organic ones.

7. Pain disorder

Dyspareunia is persistent and recurrent pain in the pelvic area during or shortly after penetration, erection or ejaculation, and can be suffered by both men and women, although it is more common in women (female dyspareunia). Scientific studies conclude that approximately 12% of women suffer from it. Female dyspareunia usually appears associated with problems of vaginismus.

8. Sex aversion disorder

People who suffer from this disorder, also called sexual rejection, avoid active and passive all genital contact. The cause is usually in extreme anxiety and panic before the sexual act. It usually occurs more frequently in women.

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How to treat sexual problems

Talking about sexual problems can be difficult, in large part because people in this situation may feel ashamed, guilty, failed and defeated both in life and in front of their partners. This circumstance does nothing but feeds the disorder because the individual enters a vicious circle from which it costs to leave.

Therefore, the best option is to seek professional help from best sexologist in Delhi, either in person or remotely. In most cases, sexual disorders have a psychological origin, and therefore sexual psychotherapy is an effective way to deal with these problems and thus overcome suffering and improve well-being.

If you are going through a situation similar to the one described in the previous lines and suffer from a sexual problem, do not be discouraged because it is possible to overcome it. Since suffering from sexual problems is a sensitive issue, it can be difficult to start a therapeutic program with these characteristics. That is why it is necessary to find a trusted sexologist clinic in Delhi, in which you feel comfortable exposing your problem.