Erotic fantasies are not a shame. In dreams, you can imagine sex with who you want, where you want, and what you want. Sexual fantasies are a reflection of intimate sexual desires and needs. Is it worth talking about your fantasies? When do erotic fantasies become a problem?

Erotic fantasies – sexual desires and needs

Erotic fantasies reflect our personality. It is believed that extroverted, brave people have spicy dreams, unlike calm, secretive people. But not always. Sometimes, seemingly silent mice dream about breaking taboos, e.g. sex in a public place with a stranger.

Erotic dreams are a reflection of our life, not just sex. They should not be interpreted literally. We usually fantasize because of temporary or prolonged dissatisfaction, loneliness, to diversify our sex life, for a change, for pleasure. Therefore, no, even the most shocking fantasy can not be evil (unless it turns into an obsession, but more on that later).

Erotic fantasies – what do they tell us?

Thanks to fantasies, we can analyze our emotions, find out what we lack in life – delicate caresses, domination, risk, or fun – and try to fulfill our own desires. This is a good way, for example, for long-term couples who need new stimuli to keep their relationship exciting, says sexologist in Delhi.

If you feel like kissing your husband’s friend or you dream of dragging him to the bathroom and force him to have sex there, it can be a signal that you want to change something in your love habits. So instead of going to bed again, offer sex in the bathtub or on the floor in the living room.